Lessons in civility
Photos by Maria Errico December 18, 2024
Sarah McBride and Bryan Shupe receive the UD Biden School Civility in Public Service Award
United States Congresswoman-elect Sarah McBride (D-Delaware) and State Representative Bryan Shupe (R-Delaware) are the 2024 recipients of the Biden School Civility in Public Service Award sponsored by the Stavros Niarchos Foundation (SNF) Ithaca Initiative in the Joseph R. Biden, Jr. School of Public Policy and Administration at the University of Delaware. On Dec. 3, the pair was celebrated by University leadership, students and community members at a discussion over dinner at the Perkins Student Center on the Newark campus. The event was organized by the Biden Institute and moderated by chair Valerie Biden Owens.
The award, established by the Biden School in 2022, is an annual event that honors two public servants from disparate places on the political spectrum who successfully worked collaboratively for the public good. McBride and Shupe were recognized for their leadership efforts in passing the Digital Citizenship Education Act (SB195), making Delaware one of the first states in the nation to legislate media literacy beginning in kindergarten. Through an established set of academic standards, this new law equips students with the necessary tools for navigating today’s digital world by teaching them how to identify misinformation, think critically about the media they consume and engage responsibly online.
“At UD, we teach our students that public service is about putting others first, finding common ground, and building bridges instead of walls,” said President Dennis Assanis during opening remarks. “[McBride and Shupe] embody the values of integrity, dignity, and collaboration — the very qualities we want our Biden School students to look up to as they prepare to be leaders.”
Biden School interim dean Joseph Trainor echoed this sentiment while delivering introductions.
“We are here tonight to celebrate two leaders who embody the values our faculty and staff strive to emulate and impart to our students — to consider the needs of others, to value our common ground and to work to forge connections,” he stated.
Delaware State Senator and President Pro Tempore David P. Sokola also attended the award ceremony to support the pair.
“I think we should start out by defining what we mean by civility, especially in this current environment,” said Biden Owens to Reps. McBride and Shupe as they took to the stage.
“For me, civility is — first and foremost — seeing the value and dignity of every single person including those who disagree with you, finding what voters in their respective districts saw in them, and then, through those relationships that you build, modeling for the people that you represent the kind of citizenship that a democracy truly and genuinely requires,” McBride said.
A native of Wilmington, Delaware, McBride is currently serving her second term representing the state senate’s first district, which includes Claymont, Bellefonte and parts of Edgemoor and Wilmington. In November 2024, she won the election for Delaware’s at-large congressional district and will succeed U.S. Rep. Lisa Blunt Rochester.
Shupe, a UD alumnus with a bachelor of arts in political science and a native of Milford, Delaware, shared that his strong sense of civility was fostered early on by his parents, recalling their consistent modeling of active citizenship by stepping up to help others and show up for the greater good of the community regardless of personal differences. It also manifested later in life through working in, starting and running several small businesses alongside his wife.
“When you’re in small business, you don’t have the time and you do not have the opportunity to create divisions,” he said. “You've got to meet the demands and get the money in the door and get the paychecks out the door so families can be fed.”
Shupe, who was elected mayor of Milford in 2014 and to the Delaware General Assembly in 2018 to represent the 36th district, which includes South Milford, Ellendale and Slaughter Beach, credits the City of Milford’s nonpartisan mayoral office with further developing his passion for bringing people together despite differences.
“In an atmosphere or environment as local as being the mayor of my hometown, when you start embracing civility and talking with more people and start to get more people on the same page, you can actually accomplish things very quickly and it’s very rewarding,” he said. “I really tried to embody that civility that I found in Mildford and bring it to the state.”
SB195 was ultimately born out of a desire for state-level response to the rapid evolution of the news media landscape, providing tools for K-12 learning that results in our youngest citizens growing into critical thinkers and discerning consumers of information online.
“You can’t have a democracy if you can’t have a national dialogue. You can’t have a shared set of facts,” McBride said. “It is like having two different teams on the same field, one is playing football and one is playing baseball. Eventually, you’re going to run into each other and you’re going to hit each other.”
“As we teach 16-year-olds to drive, they go through courses, we don’t just hand them over the keys. We don’t want to do the same thing with social media,” Shupe said. “I think that parents in general will appreciate that their children are learning how to check sources.”
McBride recalled a point in the process where she offered Shupe an out to remove his name from the bill after he received pushback from members of his party. She didn’t want his support to cost him politically.
His answer was simple: “Absolutely not. This is the right thing to do.”
“Talk about profiles in courage,” McBride said. “That is not always something you see in politics and in legislating.”
Previous award recipients include U.S. Senators Susan Collins (R-Maine) and Tammy Baldwin (D-Wisconsin) in 2023 and Delaware State Representatives Michael Smith (R) and Valerie Longhurst (D) in 2022.
To learn more about the Biden School’s SNF Ithaca Initiative and its work to advance democracy through civil discourse, visit udel.edu/bidenschool/snfithaca
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About the SNF Ithaca Initiative
SNF Ithaca, an initiative of the University of Delaware's Joseph R. Biden, Jr. School of Public Policy & Administration, seeks to advance democracy by equipping students with the civil discourse and civic engagement skills necessary to navigate the mediated public square. Supported by the Stavros Niarchos Foundation (SNF), SNF Ithaca is named after the home of Odysseus—one of Greek mythology's greatest heroes. For Odysseus, Ithaca represents not only the beginning of a journey but the ultimate destination. Likewise, the SNF Ithaca Initiative serves as both the beginning of the Biden School students' journey toward becoming engaged and effective citizens and as the ultimate destination for students across the country to come together and develop the civil civic engagement skills that will strengthen our democracy.
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