Commencement Weekend 2021 and 2020 Wrap-up: youtube.com/watch?v=csqqC7_WVMg
‘Redemption and closure’
Photos by Kathy F. Atkinson and Evan Krape | Video by Ally Quinn and Paul Puglisi June 02, 2021
UD’s Class of 2020 gets its day to shine in rescheduled Commencement
Above the tasseled caps of the alumni-to-be, gray clouds squatted stubbornly over Delaware Stadium, mischievously poised to drench Sunday’s festivities. In the grandstands, sprinkles of rain pestered the crowd, but the moms and dads in plastic ponchos were joyful nonetheless.
They could see something in the eyes of their children today: A brightness and a light that no gloomy day could dim, and no rain could dampen.
They were, after all, the University of Delaware’s peerless Class of 2020: The seniors who had prevailed through a pandemic-plagued spring semester and endured a year-long delay in their Commencement ceremony. Now, the pomp and circumstance that should crown all college careers was proceeding at last, many months after their “virtual” graduation had concluded and their “real life” journey had begun.
It was, in the words of many graduates, a bit surreal. But it was also a moment many could not miss, traveling from as far away as Florida and across the East Coast to take that diploma into their hands and see their classmates again.
“We finally feel we’re going to move on to the bigger and better things,” enthused Brian Whery, who by tradition had accessorized his blue UD graduation gown with the oversized mascot shoes of YoUDee — the same pair he had worn anonymously so many times as a student.
“It’s like closure,” said friend Matt Greene. “But we’re really going to miss this place. UD is special, it’s really special.”
How could it be anything less to these students, who can boast forever of an uncommon resilience and a shared ordeal? UD President Dennis Assanis spoke of the kinship he felt, and the gratitude they all held — it felt like the clouds were lifting, in a sense, for the UD community and for much of the world.
“As I’ve said before, your class holds a special place in my heart, because most of you started at UD at the same time I did in 2016,” he told about 1,000 graduates gathered on the field. “I truly missed the Commencement ceremony last year. And I am so grateful that you made the trip back to UD so we can mark this special moment with the incredible Class of 2020.”
Some had doubted whether that moment would ever come. “We were a little skeptical,” said Peter Fein, who traveled from Miami to get his diploma. “I kind of thought it was going to be a little underwhelming. But this is much more than I thought it would be.”
The graduates were encouraged by Blue Hen alumni to continue their exceptional paths, first by President Joe Biden via a recorded video, then from keynote speaker Ty Jones, now a producer and artistic director of the Classical Theatre of Harlem. Jones and Dan Rich, University Professor of Public Policy and a long-time University administrator, both received honorary degrees at the event.
“Your class is the most consequential in living memory,” Jones told the graduates, recalling how his UD days had been crucial in forming the skeptical, critical viewpoint that is a necessary prerequisite to making an enduring impact. Be aware of the “facts” that you are fed, he said, and keep a prudent sense of humility about what you know — and what you do not.
No matter which path you choose, he said, “use that passion, use that energy, use that emotion” to make the changes you seek. To heal our wounded world, look toward those who came before you, and see how they sometimes worked against the grain, drove “against the traffic,” and ultimately created a world no one could have imagined, he said.
It was tough capturing that sense of potential energy during the deadening pause between the postponed and in-person Commencement, graduates said. It was a time of meager opportunity for some, a feeling of being between worlds, in a state of suspended animation. “I did sort of feel like I was in limbo,” said the Class of 2020’s Maddie Smith. “It all feels so long ago. So this is a closure for me.”
“All summer, I was just trying to figure out, ‘What now?’ ” said Maddie’s friend, Melissa Ollerenshaw. “It wasn’t the best job market. But I did get a job offer, and even ended up moving.”
Newly minted Blue Hen alumna Val Pascale had two words to describe it all: Redemption and closure. “Time kind of froze until this weekend,” she said. “You know how you wake up from a dream and don’t know where you are? It was like that.”
The parents were proud regardless of the pause — and grateful UD worked to make the day happen.
“It’s closure for them, and a big relief from their disappointment,” said Kevin Mitchell, who was in attendance with wife, Kim, to see their son Korey graduate.
“Thanks to UD for doing this for them,” Kim added.
Graduates in the Class of 2020 reflect on their time at UD in this video. The photo carousel that follows shows some of the images from a day of celebration.
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