Resources
Empowering Change: Resources for Combating Gender-Based Violence
The Center for the Study and Prevention of Gender-Based Violence at the University of Delaware offers a comprehensive array of resources to address and prevent gender-based violence. The Center provides training for students and professionals in victim-service work and prevention practices, hosts an annual advocate-in-residence program, and offers career development opportunities. It maintains a Gender-Based Violence in Sports Database to enhance access to information on occurrences and outcomes in professional and collegiate athletics. The Center also supports faculty fellows, post-doctoral scholars, and graduate and undergraduate research assistants in their scholarly pursuits. Through partnerships with national organizations, the Center offers robust public and campus programming and places University of Delaware students in local and national service organizations for professional practicums. These resources collectively contribute to the Center's mission of understanding and ameliorating the causes and effects of gender-based violence.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
If you are in an abusive relationship, or know someone who is, contact your local 24-hour domestic violence hotline to learn about all of your options, including shelter, legal assistance, support groups, and more. The hotline staff can help you create a safety plan personalized for your situation.
University of Delaware resources
Danica Myers, Title IX Coordinator
305 Hullihen Hall. Newark, DE 19716; (302) 831-8063, titleixcoordinator@udel.edu.
Office of Equity & Inclusion - 305 Hullihen Hall - (302) 831-8063
Center for Counseling and Student Development (students) - confidential support
261 Perkins Student Center; (302) 831-2141; After hours: UD Helpline 24/7/365 call: 302-831-1001
Student Wellness and Health Promotion (students) - confidential support
231 S. College Avenue; (302) 831-3457
HMS Health Advocates (employees) Employee Assistance Program for UD Employees - 1-800-343-2816;
Sexual Offense Support (SOS) (students & employees) - Call UD Helpline 24/7/365 at (302)-831-1001. Ask to speak with S.O.S. advocate on duty and provide a “name”/phone number for them to call you back within 10 minutes
Police-based services
University Police - 413 Academy St, Newark, DE 19716
EMERGENCY 911; (302) 831-2222
View a complete list of UD resources.
Research Resources at UD
If you want to learn more about gender-basedviolence, visit the library’s resource guide. This guide highlights recommended databases and books for researching gender-based violence
For more information, visit the Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The DCADV is the statewide, nonprofit coalition of agencies and individuals working to stop domestic violence in Delaware.
24-hour hotlines
NEW CASTLE COUNTY: (302) 762-6110
KENT & SUSSEX COUNTIES: (302) 422-8058
ABRIENDO PUERTAS: (302) 745-9874
Para más información o preguntas puede enviar un correo electrónico a ap@peoplesplace2.com
Shelters
Shelters are in confidential locations throughout the state and look like typical family homes. There are 5 crisis shelters in Delaware that serve victims/survivors of domestic violence. Shelters provide physical safety and supportive resources. Trained staff are also on site in shelters 24/7 to support residents. Staff can help with safety planning, goal setting, and counseling/support groups. Staff can also help connect you to resources for employment, housing, legal assistance, or other services
There are two shelters in New Castle County operated by CHILD, Inc.
- People’s Place operates three shelters across Kent and Sussex Counties.
- Abriendo Puertas is an emergency shelter specifically for Latina women and children in Sussex County.
All services are free of charge and can be accessed by calling the DV hotline.
New Castle County resources
(Source: DCADV)
- CHILD, Inc. Domestic Violence Treatment Program: Victim counseling and support groups, treatment services for chemically dependent women, Helping Children Heal Program (individual, group & family counseling for children who have witnessed domestic violence).Call Erin at 302-762-8989
- Community Health Advocates: Community-based support – meets individuals wherever they feel safe and comfortable. Safety planning, connection to social services and health care, transportation, education and empowerment, general care management, and support. Bilingual services. 302-757-2137 hablamos español
- Delaware Center for Justice Adults Victim Services Program: Services for crime victims who reside in New Castle County, over 50 years of age, who have experienced any type of crime including domestic violence or elder abuse. Call Gloria Smith (Director) at 302-658-7174 ext. 15
- Family Counseling Center of St. Paul’s: The Family Counseling Center of St. Paul's (FCCSP) is a behavioral health organization serving Wilmington and the immediate surrounding community. They offer culturally competent bilingual guidance. 302-576-4136 hablamos español
- Latin American Community Center: Victim support groups, bilingual services, support services 302-655-7338 hablamos español
- YWCA Delaware: Victim support groups, case management, safety planning, counseling, referrals, educational outreach presentations on domestic violence, transitional housing 302-658-7110 ext. 204
- CHILD, Inc.: Emergency shelter & transitional services, housing assistance, educational services, bilingual services, court advocacy. 302-762-6110
Help is available for victims/survivors at every step of the way. There are victim service providers located in each level of the court system to provide information and support.
Services may include:
Short-term crisis counseling
Providing information about the criminal justice system and updates on a case
Safety planning
Emotional support
Going with victims to court proceedings
Assistance with filing for a Protection from Abuse Order (PFA) or for Victims' Compensation (VCAP)
Referral to other community resources
Attorney General’s Victim/Witness Program & Case Notification Toll Free Line: 1-800-870-1790 New Castle County: 302-577-8500 Kent County: 302-257-3293 Sussex County: 302-752-3263 Para assistencia en Español: 877-851-0482
Department of Correction, Office of Victim Services 302-857-5440
Probation and Parole Victim Services New Castle County: 302-323-6050 ext. 220 Kent County: 302-674-7193
Victims' Compensation Assistance Program 302-255-1770 The Victims’ Compensation Assistance Program (VCAP) can provide financial assistance to help cover the costs of a variety of services that help victims and their families begin to rebuild their lives, including lost wages, medical expenses, payment for mental health counseling, and funeral expenses.
VINE- Victim Information & Notification Everyday 877-DE8-VINE (877-338-8463) Victims can obtain information about criminal cases and the custody status of offenders. Victim Advocates can also help people get registered for notification.
VPO- VINE Protective Order - 866-411-0001 Helps notify victims when protective orders have been served against a respondent.
The Domestic Violence Treatment Program is a structured counseling intervention program for people who have committed abuse against their partner. While participation within the services can be either voluntary or court-mandated, many of the participants have been referred as either criminal offenders or respondents of civil Protection From Abuse (PFA) proceedings.
Treatment groups are conducted in English and Spanish. During these groups, offenders learn about violence and abuse, take responsibility for their behavior, and learn skills to change their abusive behavior. Group facilitators use a combination of support, encouragement, and respectful confrontation to create change.
Treatment programs must meet certain standards. The Domestic Violence Coordinating Council certifies programs that meet the standards.
Certified treatment programs are offered through:
- CHILD, Inc.: 302-762-8989
- People's Place: 302-424-2420
- Dover Air Force Base: 302-677-2711
Many police departments across the state have advocates who work with officers to help victims/survivors. Police-based advocates are an important connection between victims/survivors and the officers and detectives. The advocates can answer questions about the case, find information, and make referrals to other resources in the community. Advocates are available at any time, day or night, when requested to do so by an officer.
Delaware State Police Victims’ Center (24 hours, bilingual Spanish/English): 800-842-8461
In addition to serving the Delaware State Police, the Victims' Center services are also extended to over 30 other municipal departments throughout Delaware that do not have an “in house” victim service unit.
Dover Police Department Victim Assistance Program: 302-736-7134
Georgetown Police Department Victim Services (bilingual Spanish/English): 302-856-6613
Newark Police Department Victim Assistance Program: 302-366-7110 ext. 3137
New Castle County Police Victim Assistance Program: 302-395-8000
New Castle County Police Bilingual (Spanish/English) Advocate: 302-395-8117
Wilmington Police Domestic Violence Coordinator: 302-576-3648
Wilmington Police Victim Services Supervisor: 302-576-3622
Wilmington Police Victim Services Bilingual (Spanish/English) Case Coordinator: 302-576-3665
If you are in danger, please use a safer computer, or call a local hotline, or the U.S. National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 and TTY 1-800-787-3224, or 911 if it is safe to do so.
If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted or is in an abusive relationship, help is available. In addition to the resources on your campus, the following organizations provide information, support, and resources to survivors of sexual and relationship violence, as well as those who want to help them.
National Organizations and Resources
- Center for Changing Our Campus Culture
- FORGE (Resources and support for transgender and non-binary survivors of violence)
- JED Foundation: Mental Health Resource Center
- Innerbody Research Male Survivor Guide
- Men Can Stop Rape
- Men Stopping Violence
- myPlan
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- National Domestic Violence Hotline and Live Chat : 800.799.SAFE (7233)
- National Network to End Domestic Violence
- National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
- National Sexual Violence Resource Center
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline : 800-273-8255
- National Women's Law Center
- Office for Civil Rights
- RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network) Live Chat
- Stalking Resource Center
- The Recovery Village
- The Recovery Village LGBTQ+
- Victim Rights Law Center
- Women's Law (Legal Questions)
Looking for information, but you're not sure where to start? There are several resources that may be able to help. These organizations do not provide direct services to victims, but can help point you in the direction of the services you may need.
If you need help right away, the Domestic Violence Hotlines are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
GENERAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INFORMATION
Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence Business hours: 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., Monday through Friday Statewide: 302-658-2958 Kent and Sussex Counties: 800-701-0456
Domestic Violence Coordinating Council Business hours: 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m., Monday through Friday New Castle County: 302-255-0405 Kent and Sussex Counties: 302-424-7238
DE Victims' Rights Task Force: Delaware Victim Services This site allows crime victims, survivors, family members and others to connect with resources, information and services available in all three counties in the State of Delaware. It is a project of the Delaware Victims’ Rights Task Force.
SEXUAL ASSAULT RESOURCES
YWCA Sexual Assault Response Center (SARC) 800-773-8570 New Castle and Sussex Counties The Sexual Assault Response Center (SARC) provides comprehensive, free and confidential rape crisis services to sexual assault survivors aged 12 and older and their non-offending family members, friends and partners throughout the State of Delaware. SARC is committed to providing healing, hope and empowerment to individuals whose lives have been impacted by sexual violence whether the assault happened yesterday or many years ago. If you or someone you care about has been sexually assaulted, reaching out for help can be the first step toward recovery and healing.
ContactLifeline Crisis Helpline 800-262-9800 Crisis HelpLine statewide; Rape Crisis Services for Kent County
RESOURCES FOR CHILDREN
Delaware Child Abuse Hotline: 800-292-9582
Delaware 24-hour Child Mental Health Mobile Crisis (under age 18): 800-696-4357 Crisis Text Line: Text DE to 741741 Child Priority Response services are available to any child physically present in the state who is under the age of 18 and is determined to be "at imminent danger to self or others as a result of a mental health or substance abuse disorder"
Children's Advocacy Center of Delaware, Inc. New Castle County: 302-651-4566 Kent County: 302-741-2123 Sussex County: 302-854-0323
Delaware Runaway Youth Hotline: 302-762-6373
Delaware LGBTQ Youth Hotline: 800-810-6776
OTHER RESOURCES FOR ADULTS
Adult Protective Services Statewide: 800-223-9074 New Castle County: 302-453-3820 Kent & Sussex Counties: 302-424-7310
Delaware Mobile Crisis Intervention Hotline (18 and over) New Castle County: 800-652-2929 Kent & Sussex Counties: 800-345-6785
Delaware Helpline: 211
Our Voices Matter
Seeking stories from victims and survivors of intimate partner violence
Our Voices Matter: Exposing the Secrets is a new podcast series uncovering the truths about escaping violence. In this series, victims, survivors, and family members anonymously share barriers endured and inequities experienced while trying to leave the hands of an abuser. Dawn M. Riley, CEO and president of Domestic Violence Ambassadors, and creator of the podcast series, speaks up about the lack of assistance from law enforcement to court attorneys, forcing her to stay in her abusive situation. The podcast opens a community where survivors feel safe and supported. Together, no one suffers alone.
Dear Katie: Survivor Stories
Dear Katie: Survivor Stories is a podcast series inviting victims and survivors of gender-based violence to tell their stories. Join Katie Koestner, Claire N. Kaplan, Kavita Ajmere and Sandra Miles as they interview survivors telling their experiences, as well as activists, experts and leaders speaking up about their work to end gender-based violence. They are especially looking for folks who can speak to the experiences of marginalized communities: indigenous people, BIPOC, immigrants/undocumented people; trafficking survivors; LGBTQ+ people. You can find a list of episodes and more information on the podcast here: www.katiekoestner.com/podcast