Life in Our Halls
Life in Our Halls
The residence halls are our Blue Hens' home at UD. We provide students with different opportunities to help them make connections with others and support their personal growth and development. Students can learn through campus partner workshops, programs, and even by meeting with their RA individually or as a group.
Living with a Roommate
Living with a roommate is an iconic part of the college experience. For many students, living in a residence hall is the first time they've shared space with individuals outside of their family of origin. This is an exceptional opportunity for personal growth and learning, but it can also pose some challenges. Read through the resources below to help your transition to communal living.
Building a Healthy Roommate Relationship
Understand that this is a new experience and time of transition for both roommates. This may be a completely new experience for everyone involved so patience and communication is key!
Just like a job interview, your new roommate is getting to know you just as much as you’re getting to know them. The first few conversations that you and your roommate(s) have can set everyone up for success if you all are able to be open with each other about what each of you bring to the space. Share your excitement and energy to make your roommate feel welcomed.
Share what matters to you when it comes to cleaning, guests and your study/sleep schedule! It’s okay if this changes over time, just keep your roommate(s) informed.
Use residential programming and staff to help get to know your roommate(s). There’s quite a few ways to get involved in the halls that can help you get to know your roommate(s). Consider attending a community social or planning a program with them!
Questions to Ask Your Roommate
Everyone has different expectations about how close they will be with their roommate. Some students want to be close friends and some students just want to share a living space. Be upfront with your roommate or roommates about what you are looking for from your roommates.
Some students welcome news friends in the room, others prefer to keep the space more private. For many students, their feelings on daytime guests do not extend to the overnight hours. Make sure you and your current or potential roommate discuss how guests will be handled and approved.
Every student comes to UD excited for their college experience. College is a great time to meet new people and explore different activities. With that in mind, everyone's social like looks different and it's important to be honest with your roommate about your habits and expectations.
For example, are you an all-night gamer? Have early sports practice? A late night rehearsal? Be sure to chat with your roommate about how these impact your shared space.
Some room supplies might make sense to share, others may be off limits. Some things to discuss with your roommate:
- Splitting the microfridge fee
- Will you share a TV or both bring a TV
- Rugs
- Food shared or not shared
- Fans
- Cleaning supplies
- Shampoo and soap
What Happens When Conflict Arises?
Conflict is a normal part of interpersonal relationships when two or more people have differing opinions about an important issue that they care about.
Some roommate conflicts that arise are regarding
- Cleanliness
- Room arrangement
- Sleep/study schedule
- Noise
- Guests
These usually arise when people are living with each other for the first time and are navigating the new environment. Knowing these before meeting your roommate can guide your conversation to proactively minimize conflict!
- Start with yourself: What is your ideal solution? What do you or the other person need to do to move forward?
- Get a sense of the other side: Try to understand why the other person sees the situation in the way that they do and why they feel the way that they feel. They may have additional information that you don’t know yet. It’s okay if they’re not ready to talk about it yet; you can schedule a time in the future to do so at a better time.
- Explain your perspective: Be direct about your concerns so they know exactly what you would like to talk about. Use “I Statements” where you explain how you perceive the situation and the emotions that it entails. Take your time to explain your thoughts - it can be stressful to have these kinds of conversations so be patient with yourself and the other person while you each get your thoughts across.
- Talk through options: Share what your ideal solution is and allow the other person to do so as well. Talk about what’s feasible and realistic and what isn’t. Be honest about what feels right for you!
- Write out next steps: Find a common space to write out the outcome of your conversation. When you come to an agreement, write out the guidelines and the timeline for upholding these guidelines. Make a plan to check in with each other moving forward to ensure that the plan still works for everyone.
Your Resident Assistant is a great resource for you as you navigate through a conflict! RAs are trained extensively on conflict and strategies for resolution so don’t hesitate to ask them for assistance if you need it.
Roommate Agreements
Roommate agreements are something you complete with you and your roommate(s) or suitemates to discuss shared living expectations. This is a great tool to use within your first few weeks of living on-campus. Connect with your Resident Assistant or Apartment Assistant to learn more.
RA Catch Ups are conversations with your RA about your experience at UD so far and your goals for life after UD. Our RAs are trained to help students get connected with resources on campus to support students through their time at UD.
Your RA will connect with you throughout the semester, but they are always there if you need them. Connect with your RA or Residence Hall Coordinator for more info or if you want to meet with them.
Your Resident Assistant will host monthly programs for your floor to get to know each other. Consider attending your floor programs and reach out to your RA to learn about upcoming events!
Throughout the semester there will be a variety of events in your residence hall hosted by your RA, Residence Life and Housing, and other offices on-campus. In the first six weeks of the fall semester, there will be one program per week. Connect with your RA to learn more about your community’s six in six programs!
Get Involved: RA Catch Ups: youtube.com/watch?v=O4YnBo1fPaM
Student Initiated Programs
Are you looking for an opportunity to host an event for your community? Check out our Student Initiated Programs (SIPs)! Hosting a Student Initiated Program is a great way for you to have a positive impact on your community and grow in your own skills. Funding (up to $40) for this program is available through an easy request process. If you’d like to plan and host your own event, talk to your RA or Residence Hall Coordinator.
Get Involved: Student Initiated Programs: youtube.com/watch?v=JZ-7XwA2haY
Before You Host a Program
Log into your My Housing Portal and submit a Program Request in the Program Requests and Roommate Agreements section.
Program requests must be completed at least two weeks prior to your intended program date.
Not sure where to start? Talk with your Residence Hall Coordinator!
After You Host a Program
After you have hosted your event, fill out the Post Event Form to tell us how your event went and get reimbursed for your program. Post Event Forms must be completed within one week of the date your program was held.
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| Building Name | Instagram Account |
| George Read | @GeorgeReadRLH |
| Redding | @LouisReddingRLH |
| Gilbert | @GilbertRLH |
| Russell | @RussellRLH |
| Smyth | @SmythRLH |
| Lane & Thompson | @lanethompsonRLH |
| South Academy | @SouthAcademy |
| Caesar Rodney | @CaesarRodneyRLH |
| James Smith, Thomas McKean | @SmithMcKean |
| Ray Street | @RayStRLH |
| North Central | @NorthCentralRLH |
| South Central | @SouthCentralRLH |
| Independence | @IndyRLH |
| Apartments | @RLHApartments |